Two years ago, I gave up Facebook for Lent. It was seriously one of the best things I’ve ever done. I’m about to take another Facebook fast, though I won’t go 40 days.
When I gave up Facebook, I thought I’d have more time—and I did. I read more. I got more writing done. I got up off my ass and did things. I got outside more.
What I didn’t expect was how much noise it cut out of my life. After a few days, I felt a stillness I hadn’t realized was missing. I stopped composing posts in my head. I didn’t wonder what was going on. I no longer mindlessly clicked onto the open Facebook tab in my browser. Instead, I focused.
There are things I will miss:
- Sharing with this group who helped me so much in my business over the past five months.
- Connecting with a new moms group
- Chatting in an online book group with this group, where I also like to talk food and garden.
- Getting news—that a friend just had her rainbow baby, that one of my friends just started reading the book I just finished—and reminders, like Lego club is today.
And then there’s Facebook magic, like when I posted about how I’d make garlic bread if I had bread and having the bread show up at my door.
But I won’t miss clicking on articles that I may not really want to read, the compulsion to look again and again and again, staying up too late because I was scrolling too long. I won’t miss closing my computer more often and opening a book instead.
I’ve been working on decluttering my house lately. Maybe I’ll make more progress with fewer online distractions, but better yet I’ll declutter my mind for a while.
Have you taken a break from Facebook (or have you resisted it altogether)? Tell me about it.
Hmmmm. Inspired. I have friends who’ve done this and I do think I’m ready as I’ve been avoiding it, almost, lately. Thank you, Sara. You are a great voice.
Kate
Let me know how it goes if you do try it. The first few days are the hardest. Last time I did this, I got on Facebook by mistake out of force of habit, but clicked right out.